Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Holiday yet so called on duty (2)....side dish

Memorable time with my family.......

Miri Trip

Fortunately got chance to walk around with d "lao yi bei" church senior and together with my youngest sister in Miri this coming bak. This is my 3rd time going to Miri after my primary school. It's change lots od compared 2 Sibu. Due to nothing can be developed in Sibu while Miri has its rich petroleum... No wonder... already heard that Sibu will become a city since 2008 yet now still haven't turn to be... but i still very much enjoy the easy life and slower paces in Sibu. Back to Miri, I enjoy the beach scenery there very much. 1st time i try so many "ye wei" all 1 2gether- turtle meat, bat, "4 leg snake", wild boar,..... n of course it had costed us almost RM30 each person leh... N Thanks to the evelyn, han chiong for their hospitality to guide us those days.
At the petroleum muzeum

Durian time with my family....
This coming back so gd can eat durian 2gether with my family after 2 yrs i think although i oso gt enjoy durian at PB n taiping there 2... But the feeling will never the same when u enjoy with family as compared to frens.. It's so memorable that we all having the "longgokan" durian during that time..




Three happily smiled sisters with smelly durian ^.^

This coming back noticed that all my sister really grow up already. They are quite understanding as compared to the teens now probably due to the need of relying on themselves. They will try to consider family at very 1st. They will try to save money for my mom and wouldn't ask to buy this and that like other kids..

Hair cutting....
Like: the funniest thing is that when i go to a hair saloon with my mum and sister that christmas afternoon from 1pm till 3pm++, all three of us were having hair cutting... My youngest sister complained to me that she never ever wanna go to hair saloon again due to the expensiveness.(Because my elder sister used to cut for her for free de..). Feel quite proud to have her as my sister.. Haha..

Compared to the daughters for the saloon " tau ke nio", they spent their mom just taking for granted as they buy RM150++ just for a white school shoes. Back to the hair cutting, wee had paid RM 49 during that time but it stated that RM5-7 for school or college students and RM8-12 for adults yet....... I never have a such an expensive hair cut before.. Feel being cheated... i told myself that i never go to that saloon again, Kimarie..
"Dan Zhang" of that saloon...

The Christmas Gift
My funny mom so excited to tell me that she get the 1st prize for the lucky draw at a supermarket near my home while she only buying a RM2++ dried mee that nite got "evangelistic night" outside the super there...
Our very 1st Christmas gift at the Christmas eve i told them...
See... she happily holding her hamper... ^.^

During free time this coming back...
Hehe... i managed to make some desserts for them 2...
Red bean soup...

Tan Yuan with peanut inside

Layer kuih....

and my favourite Batik Kek

The christmas time at Sanyan....







And at the end... Flying back to USM...
that time..still feel like dun wan to leave .. a bit down at that time cox knowing many more challenges in my services and studies wait for me... Hope that I can hold tightly Lord and through it...
Good bye my lovely hometown with sweet memories...
Will come back soon for CNY.....

Holiday yet so called on duty (1)....main course

Let me refresh back what have i done in this hometown's Holiday....
Busy yet still very much enjoying in HIS duty...

Children camp, youth camps, Qin Shao Nian sunday service, fellowships, then flight delay, stay 1 more week in hometown with my lovely family, cancelling S'pore trip, Christmas nite then finally Steamboat gathering...

Firstly, Thanks Lord 4 delaying my flight then i spend 1 more week celebrating Christmas 2gether with my family after 2 years...

My hometown church life ^.^

Children camp

Soon after the trip, we have 3 days children camp. I'm been asked to help out as to lead a group for the camp. The title is "When Jesus coming back again..." We keep stressing to the children what will happen when Jesus 2nd time coming back and what they need and do that time. We keep asking them this question:[When Jesus ask :"Why should I letting you come into the gate of Heaven?"]How would u answer? “Because Jesus said:"I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." John 14:6

Managed to have fun with the children in my SIB church. The children really naive, i still feel sweet when i thought of those memorable pictures --They all so good and close when they score high marks due to their team work in game, and yet "nao pi qi" and blaming each other when loss in a game" No wonder Jesus said let the children come to the front of HIM. Hopefully this camp can have impacts in them and me 2.. The title also refresh me lots that... How i can face Jesus at that time? Have i work hard enough for HIM? Will i regret? Confident enough?
Briefing...
Game time with hoop.. my tiny group... They r so exciting that time^.^
here's group pic....^.^

Qin Shao Nian Sunday Service“基督品牌”
Pastor Lau and Pastor Wong from the left side
I only involved in the choir part for the service. The pastor Lau telling us that our youth nowadays no longer as our forefather age. They doesn't have the words "青少年人" in the past and the word is invented this lately because they only call youth or teens as “青年人” wherelse a teens at around 1900 will know how to navigate a ship to rescue work, a teen at those years becoming a nurse better than an adult and becoming the chief of nurse at teens age, and another 1 able drawing out the map using his topo knowledges. While in this ages, parents seems doesn't have high expectation from their children as long as they score high marks and helping to do some house chores, their parent will be satisfy. This teens nowadays chasing for their nike, addidas latest hair styles, mobile .... He challenged us that what we can bring out as a Christ Brand, What we can show if not that materialistic stuffs only but through inner self as a christian? What the attitudes should we have towards this era?

Youth camp “别小看我” Esther:1-10

After that, following by a 3 days bible study camp more likely. This camp i incharge as a helper in group again, accomodation, and also in the daily meals. And we have the excellent camp leader - pastor Wu, speaker Pastor Wong, game master Jian Xiang, helpers-Xiu Zhi, Mei Qi, Allen n including me.. Hehe^.^

In this camp, i feel more exhausted because of incharging of too many things gua.. Most of the time i rushing here n there to ensure drinking water enough, cooking rice, preparing drinks for meals then rush back to my incharged group when i free. So, really unable to stick with them much.. The 1st day, i almost cry out with the half-cooked rice. N after all, pastor Wong teach the technique in cooking such a huge pot of rice then rice cooked smoothly the next day

(That is the SURELY COOKED RICE = SAME LEVEL OF RICE + SAME LEVEL OF POURING WATER...hehe).

At night, i sleep like a pig probably 2 tired without paying much attention to the gals in the room although i'm d "ah tao"..

Although i have read the Esther almost 4-5, i still not dare to say that i can memorise every elements inside already, so same things to the teens as some maybe only read 1 time. But i'm amazed by my younger sis on how she can memorise quite easily and can be considered good already.

If got chance, i wish i could also join as a camper in such a bible study camp to upgrade my bible knowledge..Saw lots of inadequate for my bible knowledges in this camp.. Regret that unable to equip myself well during my teen's time.... Yet, thanks Lord as 4 me 2 see it as to keep moving on more n more...
Pastor 吴秋梅 ... she's really geng lol.. i reli like bible study conducted by her lol...^.^
Pastor黄光开 A never old hearted pastor, he always join madly even in games with us...

Game master 建翔
秀枝
Youth group- sharing session with them
Game time 数豆豆
Game time- 多手多脚.. c.. they r so called so "united"...
Yeah...group pic...^.^


My Christmas night

During P&W

Cute naughty didi... i witness his growing since his birth.. that year my church got 5-6 babies..|||


Posing...

happy faces^.^
my younger sisters

Fortunately this year i managed to have Christmas celebration in my hometown. I need not to be involved in Christmas event at the beggining because my flight on 20 Dec de.. I told myself to rest a while after all the business from PB till Sibu.. Let them settle it... A fren of mines oso prefer at the beggining not to involved in that drama after 2 camps and a sunday service....

During that time, i see Xiu Zhi and my sis seens helpless arranging 4 drama.. Then, tired yet i feel that Lord have letting me 2 stay 1 more week here then i opt to do something 4 HIM although i also don't have any experiences in conducting a drama, then try to help out things i probably can do, then i try my very 1st time to rewrite again d skrip from an original skrip.

Then, probably due to my that fren's commitment to Lord, in the end he helping out us again to conduct the drama by adding more humurous elements and make it a successful messaging drama.. Joyful and Praise to our Lord!!!

Then, after rearranging characters, i become one of them. Surprisingly, found that 4 out of 6 of the characters holding by 4 siblings of us, my bro as pa, my elder sis as mom, my younger sis n me lo.. another 4 voicing d characters' dialogue n PA effects. Another thanksful to Lord as my family can serve together. Pastor Ling coming back from US also even ask that where is "Nian Mei" since all of us involved already where my Da Mei involved in 2 dances and only she didn't involve. Thanks Lord again that all my family members still can serve Lord faithfully and able to attend services and gathering together. Joyful to Lord!!!

Wanna really thanks for his helps athough he probably may grow more white hair after this (due to overuse of brain... haha...) and all do involving in this drama... He's really briliant in conducting ideas n humurous sense.. "Frenz, reli thanks u all ya.."

Long time our church didn't flourished by so many people liao after the incident. That night i think got 200++people attending. Thanks God!

Finally.....
Steamboat gathering
That time......




FOOD |||||
Guo Xiu & me ^.^

After all, we having big meal only d day b4 i'm leaving on satuday nite, we come as early as 4pm++ as to preparing, washing the ingredients to have big meal and gathering time together.
We didn't have such a huge combination for a long time already. And thanksful to Lord that again we have almost 40 youths including us the young adults joining.. I managed to chat with few youths there. Pastor hope that we can have such a gathering more offen as to foster our relationship...

This coming back home, i saw and exposed more to the insufficient of servers in christ ministry in my own hometown church. As almost all the young adults are the teachers and being posting to the others place then.. seens like church services come harder. As our church now still in the beggining of formation stage, we just can hand over all to Lord to help us and we need to pray harder and harder for the existing condition as nothing much can be done... And, really thanksful to Lord that he has sent us this two loyal and faithful pastors to reform our chhurch here... ^.^

Friday, December 25, 2009

有趣的姐妹。。。

一天下午,有趣的听到我两个妹妹在对话,一个说:“Bi, 我明天要再少团分享圣经人物,啊呀!要分享什么leh?嗨呀!我不知道要分享什么leh。。。帮我想一下mo。。。”
另一个就拿出圣经来,“Haiyo。。。圣经里这样多人物,不可能没有一个你不会讲的吧!”,她就说出了一大堆圣经人物,到最后选了参孙,翻到士师记12章到16章里参孙的故事,就这样简单的读起来,从参孙的出生,与外邦腓力士女子结婚,头上的七条发辫,撕裂狮子,拿尸首的蜜给他父母,,与三个女子一起过,猜谜语,用驴腮骨杀人,到他眼瞎和死为止,后就一下子可以summarise仔仔细细整个故事的内容,把重点整理一下告诉那小的,小的也一下子就可以pick up 整个故事,然后再重复一遍给她听。。。

那时,心情有些复杂,在旁看着她们,有些暗笑着,心里欣慰的是两个妹妹在神话语方面可以如此的同心,小的时候很长看到她们俩常因东西或食物没有公平分配而吵架打架(家里很常好吃的食物都会一下子就完了),还有,在神的话语方面,这样的用心这样的容易吸收。感恩她们从生命堂一路走来从主日学升到少团都有受圣经上的装备,也感谢现任的两位非常非常注重圣经话语的传道人。。

惭愧的是,身为姐姐的,在圣经方面即还没有下足功夫,也许还差她们一载呢,也没有与妹妹们能一起好好的读经,也没能在幼小的年龄,在主日学或少团受足够的装备。记得,那时自己曾经有一段日子在地方召会,也没能固定在主日学及少团。。

感恩妹妹们及全家人都很努力的在跑神的道路。。。

Friday, December 11, 2009

Meeting with old friends... ^.^

Yesterday fortunately able to meet with my close old friends, Ling Sing and Jici in Mana cafe in Sanyan building. They were my secondary school class mates. Jici and me always keep in touch although we were studying in different place, currently she is in Melaka Kuktem while Ling Sing is working currently in Sibu Municipal Council. We had not met for really a long time already.

Thankful to God for this gathering, We were there from 11am++ until almost 4pm. Kinda unbelieveable we still able to talk so much! We tried to catch up for whatever we had missed it before, it's really nice to be able to meet with old friends. It's the 1st time for such a gathering for this semester's holiday.

We chatted about how's everyone of our SES classmates, and "sampat" about everyone's characters, our current lives and situations, who's breaking up, where are them currently, temper of others, fierce experiences when they are being taken over advantages, our family, laughing over the huge changes for the faces in facebook, bla bla bla....

Really memorial moment for what we had go through in secondary.. ^.^
Time paced really fast, everyone of us got to in own situations, different responsibilities, demands, goals, minds, realities, no longer as daddy mummy gals...
Haiz... a bit regretful for forgetting to take a pic before leaving...

Thursday, December 10, 2009

盖棺礼。。。


今天从早上到下午,细雨绵绵,听长辈说每逢只要有人过世就会下起雨来,还蛮真的。。。
今天有机会出席了总共两个盖棺礼都由卫理公会牧师主持,而且都在古田公园的mortuary进行。。。
主仿佛也为在地上歇了劳苦的两位忠心的老仆人流下了天上的眼泪。。。
出席者的面容上都多了几分不舍及哀愁特别是家属们,我向他们的家属们紧握手以表示最深的关怀。。。

这也是我第三第四次出席者盖棺礼,回想以前出席时自己是在家属的那个位置,那时是外婆和父亲不在时,那时也一样哭红了眼睛,百般的不舍与自己亲密的家人从此分离,怀念相聚的点滴。。。
所以,此时出席类似的场合时,还是会回顾,心中仍有所感触。。。
如今不知不觉竟已过了好几年,仍感谢神百般的恩待,丰富的恩典及带领。。。

早上出席的是黄乃芳老伯,享年82岁,黄光开传道的父亲(现任家乡教会的主领牧者),黄光赐宣教士也远从他的宣教工厂赶回来,听黄传道说很感恩他临走时没有任何的痛苦或疼痛,在短短的那几个小时里在1/12/09就安息主怀了,他生前非常喜欢把感谢主挂在嘴边,也很爱唱感谢神那首歌。。。
黄传道在那礼仪里分享有关他父亲的点点滴滴时也留下了男儿的眼泪。。。除了家属的子子孙孙,大妹,姐,秀枝和我成了当中最年轻的出席者,也不晓得为何这类型的聚会都很少会看到年轻人。。。

下午三点时出席的是姚锦英姐妹,享年72岁,在7/12/09安息主怀,林瑶珉传道的母亲,在星期日晚上进了医院,庆幸她离开时也一样没有任何疼痛。。。
林传道几年前曾经在家乡教会事奉现在已远嫁他乡并已定居在美国,她昨天才从美国赶回来送他母亲最后一程。。。
同样的,除了家属的子子孙孙,小妹,心绮和我还是当中最年轻的出席者。。。
主持盖棺礼天恩堂的牧师说她26年牧会当中从来没有看过一个人可以为回天家做了这么足的预备,姚锦英姐妹在06年从医生的口中得知患上了末期癌症,只剩下半年的命,她随时随地都在预备被主接回天家,她仍祷告向神说她要用剩下的生命继续荣耀主,甚至很喜乐的过每一天的生活,她也很常在那期间与探访她的人述说并亲手写她生命的见证与人分享,很奇迹的上帝延长了她的生命到三年,她用她一身来荣耀主。,牧师也说她的生命就如保罗说的:

《提摩太后书》4:7-8
那美好的仗我已经打过了;当跑的路我已经跑尽了;所信的道我已经守住了。
从此以后,有公义的冠冕为我存留,就是按著公义审判的主到了那日要赐给我的;不但赐给我,也赐给凡爱慕他显现的人。

姚锦英姐妹的遗体之后也在七点半晚上运到她的家乡老越去以在那里安葬。。。

不知道自己见主面时,能不能像保罗那样,
但愿自己能靠着耶稣继续在奔跑主的路上,坚定持守主的道。。。